https://www.fuse.tv/shows/the-ride-life/gpVvQ2lxrsKm
Watching Episode 3 of The Ride Life, which was shot in Korea, I was surprised by a new fact Sung shared about himself. What caught my eye first, however, was him driving a very cool Hyundai IONIQ 5N. It reminded me that my husband and I had looked into getting the regular IONIQ 5 (not the performance N model), but we ended up with a VW ID.4 because our local Hyundai dealer wasn't certified for EVs yet. My husband had mentioned that classic cars are becoming a trend for wealthy Koreans, and Sung actually brought this up on the show as well. We were both unaware of Korea's growing passion for automobiles, much like Japan, which seems to be driven by their increased wealth allowing them to buy and restore interesting cars.
While I hate to spoil the show, I need to share my reflection on Sung's revelations about his family life. As a lifelong fan, I thought I knew his background, but I was surprised to learn Korea is his birth country. It's easy to forget that in the early 1970s, without the internet, maintaining ties to one's birth country and culture was incredibly challenging. Even for me, arriving in the US in the early 90s, a simple phone call across the Pacific could cost a week's allowance. It was around this time that Sung's mother moved back to Korea.
The mother-son dynamic is something I can only guess at. It's fascinating that my husband has shared such similar stories about his mom. Maybe I'm drawn to those who, like Sung, had a different kind of maternal relationship.
Ultimately, I doubt there's a single "correct" way for a mother and son to relate, though we see examples of both healthy and unhealthy dynamics. My own experience is quite different; I left home at twenty and have lived overseas ever since. Though my visits home are annual, and my parents' visits are less frequent (around every five years), and while I don't call often, sometimes going months without speaking, I've never felt truly disconnected from my family. Maybe I'm just lucky, or maybe this makes me empathetic to those who feel a sense of longing.